I don’t want to listen to her petty attacks. Should I say something privately to her? To him? Or should I just mind my own ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

In a few days, the second anniversary of my husband’s death will be here. We were together for 40 years. They weren’t easy ...