When my dad was in high school, his dad died.His mom had gotten fat during her marriage and my dad watched as, after the death of his father, she lost all the weight in order to get a new husband. 45 years later, it still bothers him. It still hurts. I had a friend who’s mom was overweight. Not by a lot, but enough that it affected her health. My friend watched as her mom went from someone reliable, to completely erratic. From one day to the next, no one knew if she’d feel well enough to be a mo